tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post5162868637388415781..comments2023-05-30T11:34:22.563-04:00Comments on The Lakewood Scoop: Update: Progress Made With High SchoolsTLS Editorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11765383809123171529noreply@blogger.comBlogger61125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-20759288121455088462009-09-03T21:28:06.825-04:002009-09-03T21:28:06.825-04:00Ok let's try again. Someone asked why a certa...Ok let's try again. Someone asked why a certain school is not getting flooded witha pplicants. Let us just say there are many issues and many were warnedthere are problems and to consider another hoigh school. Can you print that tls?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-82136597467737179692009-09-03T21:21:45.112-04:002009-09-03T21:21:45.112-04:00I am an askan. I have worked many long hours to h...I am an askan. I have worked many long hours to help girls get in to high school that probably don't deserve to go to any of our schools. They show no respect and have behavior issues. But we worked tirelessly to help them and many good girls had to suffer and not get accepted because of them. Next year we have all decided to stay out of the issue no one appreciates what we do. So next year you are all on your own we will find other things to do like spend time with our kids or learn.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-70693718228762704452009-09-03T21:17:09.143-04:002009-09-03T21:17:09.143-04:00Re: The truth Hurts
Wow. Heavy stuff.Re: The truth Hurts<br /><br />Wow. Heavy stuff.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-20905325859529143612009-09-03T21:13:24.409-04:002009-09-03T21:13:24.409-04:00I get it so the askan is aguy that does favors for...I get it so the askan is aguy that does favors for everyone. And those people hate them in return?just like us cops.non_jewnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-33348482571387332942009-09-03T21:00:07.967-04:002009-09-03T21:00:07.967-04:00An askan is the guy who helps somebody and then th...An askan is the guy who helps somebody and then the guy who got the help turns around and gives him a good kick in the .....<br /><br />The Chasam Sofer once had somebody who was metzaer him very much . He told somebody " I am moichel him for what he is doing to me . The only thing is that I can't remember the favor that I must have done for him ,for him to be so nasty to me "Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-31144981403934446612009-09-03T20:24:28.156-04:002009-09-03T20:24:28.156-04:00What in gods name is an askan? And why does everyo...What in gods name is an askan? And why does everyone hate them so much?where I come from people help each other and are appreciated not hated.non-jewnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-16023743957559400852009-09-03T20:19:01.865-04:002009-09-03T20:19:01.865-04:00Dear truth hurts
You obviously are full of sour gr...Dear truth hurts<br />You obviously are full of sour grapes. You don't realize that askonim have only a desire to help everyone. They do it with no interior motives. They help everyone and ask for nothing in return. We need to thank our askonim for getting us to where we are today. Withou them lakewood would be ateribble place to live.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-1934591647617811292009-09-03T20:15:21.995-04:002009-09-03T20:15:21.995-04:00in this town most schools are run like business,if...in this town most schools are run like business,if there is no real money in it why help someone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-23138614282646951822009-09-03T18:25:52.331-04:002009-09-03T18:25:52.331-04:00Let’s call a spade a spade. The core problem has n...Let’s call a spade a spade. The core problem has nothing to with space in the schools or which schools the parents try to send their children to. Yes those issues add to the problem, but they are not the core of the problem. The problem here is that in this town nothing runs like a kehilla, in the whole country from coast to coast every city, and even in and around New York you have kehillas - chassidish, litvish, or modern, it makes no difference. In each group you have people who are more capable weather in ruchnius or gashmius, which help out those who are not. If a kehilla does not run like this it will eventually fall, in out of town it will start collapsing, and in the New York area it will just fall apart with member joining other groups or kehillas in New York. Lakewood has something nothing else has it was a community built on Torah which then caught a terrible disease that has spread from the top down and has manifested itself in every corner of this town . Instead of those that are capable helping those that are not, these peoples elitism got to there head and the started using their capabilities to control others peoples lives. It became all about control and power. How much power and who they could control. And how they could use the control for their self benefit. <br /><br />But then the disease spread and it cam back to bite them. Lo and behold the epidemic of power hungry people spread. It spread to balai mosdos, having a vaad, concocting botei denim full of “roah bukker “.<br /> Take one good look in the mirror for a second. here we are in Lakewood , which we call “ir hatorah “ a city which is supposed to built on torah – and took a look at who are running our mosdos , who are part of the vaadim running our city , who are on the botei dimin, full of people that any other city wouldn’t touch with a ten foot pole. It is embarrassing who the IR hatorah has on its “botei denim” and have running our institutions”. Even the chassidisha communities were learning torah is not put on such a high pedestal laugh at us . There is common denominator that most of these people have. They are “control freaks “. They are people, who whether consciously or subconsciously live and strive to control others. Instead of using their positions to help others, the reverse has happened they use their position to get others to serve their needs.<br /><br />Now don’t get me wrong, not everyone of the individuals involved are like this, but even those that are not have their hands tied but those that are. This is a town were “one hand washes the other and two hands wash the face” – and therefore if you don’t “play ball” with the power brokers, you can’t go anywhere. Therefore unless you now otherwise you should give the ones running the mossad the benefit of the doubt, even though the majority or guilty<br />It is not that there is no room for 2-5% of the girls, it is that almost everyone who has a mossad is trying to control people, weather high school or elementary. They don’t care about you, or about your feelings, they don’t care about middos or hashkafa. They will sell out any hashkafa, if some guy comes with big bucks. What they care about is control, and if the have a mossad they are “part of the game.” they are now a” power broker “ , “player in the game “ people need them , and they can in turn use and control those who need them . They fact that everyone knows that some parents will have to get down on their knees, just plays into their hands.THE TRUTH HURTSnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-68578497542127459332009-09-03T18:16:29.601-04:002009-09-03T18:16:29.601-04:00To 5:20 pm: The answer is NO, not all elementary ...To 5:20 pm: The answer is NO, not all elementary school children have been placed.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-81623768336835223912009-09-03T18:14:41.276-04:002009-09-03T18:14:41.276-04:00There are many wonderful mechanchim who truly want...There are many wonderful mechanchim who truly want to carry on the mesora of Bais Yaakov for every girl. Look elsewhere and you will find many role models.OY NA LANUnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-34695724146782710592009-09-03T17:51:28.169-04:002009-09-03T17:51:28.169-04:00I hear you . But if the statiscis show ,according ...I hear you . But if the statiscis show ,according to the bloggers here,that everybody who made a school has become Corrrupted by the power ,then why should I be different ? It is unlikely that I will be the only uncorrupted one out of all the other schools ?NOT NASTY YETnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-31939241387443449662009-09-03T17:49:30.468-04:002009-09-03T17:49:30.468-04:005:40: Now THAT'S asking for a lot. It sounds l...5:40: Now THAT'S asking for a lot. It sounds like Bnos takes girls into their school even if they don't think it is good for their image. Why don't people just go there already???Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-70945219530362304902009-09-03T17:40:20.003-04:002009-09-03T17:40:20.003-04:00Dearest 5:28 pm: Many have come before you, tryin...Dearest 5:28 pm: Many have come before you, trying to help the tzibbur, wanting to do good. However, power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. Kol mi she'oskim b'tzorche tzibbur B'EMUNAH will be rewarded. If you are sincere, do not make yourself a dictator. Listen to Daas Torah, and take girls into your school even if you don't think it is good for your image. You would be surprised that you can be respected without being a bigshot. Hatzlocha!OY NA LANUnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-86074872394998118622009-09-03T17:28:15.585-04:002009-09-03T17:28:15.585-04:00Since it sounds like without exception ,everybody ...Since it sounds like without exception ,everybody who makes or runs a school is nasty and antagonizing , I want to know the following :<br /><br />Is it that only nasty people decide to make schools or is it that once you make a school you then become nasty ? Which comes first .<br /><br />I am thinking of making a school but I dont think I am nasty . Does that mean I am not nasty and not cut out for it or does it mean that once I make the school I will become nasty and antagonizing .NOT NASTY YETnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-20905008037381785652009-09-03T17:26:35.420-04:002009-09-03T17:26:35.420-04:00I CANT WAIT TO SEE THE TOY TRADERS ADD THIS WEEK.I...I CANT WAIT TO SEE THE TOY TRADERS ADD THIS WEEK.I WONDER IF IT WIILL MAKE FUN OF THIS WHOLE SIUATION.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-35750589902101980652009-09-03T17:24:31.705-04:002009-09-03T17:24:31.705-04:00Reading this I cant imagine why anybody would want...Reading this I cant imagine why anybody would want to have school in Lakewood . You got to be nuts to get involved. It sounds like there is no chance of staying sane or staying respected .Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-52880916221862390112009-09-03T17:20:42.738-04:002009-09-03T17:20:42.738-04:00how about elemtary schools, are all children place...how about elemtary schools, are all children placed?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-7275846983905983942009-09-03T17:13:51.185-04:002009-09-03T17:13:51.185-04:00Our patience is wearing thin. While these "m...Our patience is wearing thin. While these "mosdos" are surely enjoying the limelight, it is at the expense of heilige yiddishe neshomos. Get your act together!!! And don't be surprised when the wheel turns and you are the "reject".PARENT IN WAITINGnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-9535763541648502492009-09-03T16:59:24.056-04:002009-09-03T16:59:24.056-04:00If there weent so many Askanim running around help...If there weent so many Askanim running around helping these parents ,then they would have to take care of themselves and go to the schools that want them . But they always think the Askanim will help them at the end so they hold out .Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-61265563495808114402009-09-03T16:54:16.573-04:002009-09-03T16:54:16.573-04:00Dear Brooklyn Zeidie,
With all due respect, please...Dear Brooklyn Zeidie,<br />With all due respect, please stop getting hung up on tuition. There are many large families in Lakewood living on very small incomes, and tuition has to remain low. If the schools would stop antagonizing people and have better PR, they might have more donors and be able to stay solvent. Then we could talk to them about adding classes for the growing Lakewood girls' population KAH.HOW WILL THIS END?noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-54421904781575711372009-09-03T16:51:16.006-04:002009-09-03T16:51:16.006-04:00Thank the RS I don't live in LakewoodThank the RS I don't live in LakewoodAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-11944464314906551112009-09-03T16:47:57.156-04:002009-09-03T16:47:57.156-04:00Do I get it ? Not really . But I guess since I am ...Do I get it ? Not really . But I guess since I am from out of Lakewood I am not smart enough to get why 4 days before school starts , people would be holding seats for somebody who has stated their wish not to come .Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-74084796026160093842009-09-03T16:44:00.958-04:002009-09-03T16:44:00.958-04:00Im pretty amazed . If as you say there are some sc...Im pretty amazed . If as you say there are some schools more in demand ,then they could probably command a higher tuition . If they are truly not ,it is pretty amazing .BROOKLYN ZEIDIEnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7968767325807262076.post-90460942759239474432009-09-03T16:43:50.351-04:002009-09-03T16:43:50.351-04:00TO 4:37 PM: They Mosdos are holding spaces for gi...TO 4:37 PM: They Mosdos are holding spaces for girls who want to be elsewhere, because that is part of the game of elitism. Everyone wants to be part of the club which doesn't want them. Every school wants the girls who think they are too good for them. Get it?WATCHING THIS 3-RING CIRCUSnoreply@blogger.com